Love at first site fairy tales. Is the love at first sight a Disney add on or were these fairy tales like Cinderella, sleeping beauty and snow white really written to encourage this belief that you could fall in love at first sight? I think its a horrible message to send to young girls. What about common interests and general compatibility? I think it sets up young woman looking for "happiness" and "love" to hit them. The whole "they lived happily ever after" ending just creates years of therapy!